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Learning to Live Without

Learning to Live Without

What do we human beings do when we are tired?

Not just physically tired, but soul tired.

Usually, we do one of two things. We either excuse ourselves or try to repair ourselves. We justify our patterns that are hurting us and others - this is just who I am … this is just how life is … this is just what happens when you’re under pressure. Or we launch into another round of self-improvement, another attempt to finally become the person we feel we ought to be. In one direction lies resignation; in the other lies exhaustion. Most of us know both.

Into our tiredness the clear, warm and knowing voice of Jesus calls:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28–30)

Jesus’ invitation hearkens like an open door to a fire-lit room, as we start this Autumn series.

Learning to Live Without is our Term 2 series and it’s all about learning to live like Jesus. And learning from Jesus. It’s about discipleship – being discipled by Jesus. It’s about our maturity, our changing lives, the refreshment of our weary souls. It’s about the slow, often painful, always grace-soaked work of being trained by Jesus into the ‘yoked’ life he describes in His sermon on the mount. It’s about learning to put off our old patterns of the self, by learning to "live without"… and learning instead, to live in his gentle rhythms of grace.

Not grace as vague sentiment.

Not grace as permission to remain unchanged.

But grace as the personal, transforming loving-kindness of Jesus who teaches us how to live.

This is why our series title matters.

Why “Learning to Live Without”?

Because much of Christian growth feels, at first, like subtraction. Letting go. A giving up of certain ways of ‘living’.

To be ‘yoked’ to Jesus is not just to add a few religious practices to an otherwise unchanged life. It’s not merely to hold new beliefs while continuing to live by old patterns. It’s not simply to become a more respectable version of the same person. It is to take up his invitation: to come and learn from Jesus is to bring to him our burdens, heavy and wearisome that they are. And to let him take them from us. To come alongside him, and to swap those ways of living, by given them over to him. It is to unlearn ways of seeing, wanting, reacting, speaking, and surviving that may once have felt normal to us, but have no place in the Kingdom of God. To be yoked to Jesus is to learn to live without our burdens, so we can learn to live with him,

This series is called "Learning to Live Without" because Jesus teaches his disciples to live without the very burdens we thought would bring us life.

We will be learning to live:

  • Without anger that weighs us down with regret.
  • Without lust that consumes us.
  • Without lying that isolates us, making us lonely.
  • Without revenge that ultimately destroys us.
  • Without ‘vainglory’ that distorts our souls.
  • Without greed that enslaves us.
  • Without worry that masters us.
  • Without judgmentalism that blinds us.

Jesus doesn’t merely forgive our failures; he teaches us how to live faithfully. He doesn’t simply announce the Kingdom of Heaven; he comes alongside us to gently lead us in learning how to live in it – by living like him.

So we will be learning each week to live without, and instead to live with Him, newly pacing our lives according to his gentle rhythms of grace.

Why return to the Sermon on the Mount?

A fair question arises straight away:

Haven’t we already done the Sermon on the Mount?

Yes, we have.

And that’s exactly why we return.

Because where else would we go to learn from Jesus how to live?

The Sermon on the Mount is Jesus’ teaching for learners, for followers, for those called to walk with him.

For those invited to come give him our heavy burdens, and to receive his restful burden in exchange.

Sunday

Main Passage

Episode Title

Big Idea

Worship

First Bible Reading

Second Bible Reading

   

26-Apr-26

Matthew 11:28-30

Learning from Jesus

Jesus’ central teaching, his good news, is to come swap our heavy burdens for his restful burden, learning God's gentle rhythms of grace.

Psalm 2

Mark 10:13-16

Matthew 4:17 and 11:28-30

   

3-May-26

Matthew 5:1-12

Learning to Live God's Flourishing Life

The Beatitudes are not prescriptions for blessedness, but descriptions of the kinds of people who are invited to the kingdom.

Psalm 1

Matthew 25:31-46

Matthew 5:1-12

   

1 0-May-26

Matthew 5:21-26

Learning to Live Without Anger

Anger is caused by unmet expectations that are mixed with fear, but Jesus invites us to rest within limitations.

Psalm 37:1-11

Proverbs 14:16-35

Matthew 5:21-26

   

17-May-26

Matthew 5:27-30

Learning to Live Without Lust

Lust is the creation of a false image that we worship, trying to fill a deep need for intimacy which can only be satisfied in union with God and his church.

Psalm 51:1-17

John 4:1-26

Matthew 5:27-30

   

24-May-26

Matthew 5:33-37

Learning to Live Without Lying

We lie when disconnected from God's kingdom and are unsure of our protection, identity and care, but in His kingdom we learn to truth in love.

Psalm 139:1-12

Colossians 3:1-10

Matthew 5:33-37

   

31-May-26

Matthew 5:38-48

Learning to Live Without Vengeance

In God's kingdom we can let go of our need for vengeance, and learn instead to bless people who would harm us—just as Jesus did.

Proverbs 15:1-8

Genesis 50:15-21

Matthew 5:38-48

   

7-Jun-26

Matthew 6:1-8, 16-18

Learning to Live Without Pride

Pride is chaining our worth to the shifting shadows of what others think, but Jesus invites us to trade our exhausting performance for His freedom of simply enjoying doing good.

Luke 18:9-14

Acts 5:1-11

Matthew 6:1-8, 16-18

   

14-Jun-26

Matthew 6:19-24

Learning to Live Without Greed

We are all stewards of the wealth we receive, and can invest in either earthly or heavenly treasures.

Luke 12:16-21

Luke 18:18-30

Matthew 6:19-24

   

21-Jun-26

Matthew 6:25-34

Learning to Live Without Worry

Everyone has good reasons to worry, but people living in God's Kingdom can learn to trust Him with everything.

Psalm 55:22-23

Philippians 4:4-7

Matthew 6:25-34

   

28-Jun-26

Matthew 7:1-12

Learning to Live Without Judging Others

Judging is a common way we try to control others, but it fails. Jesus’ method is to pray for, to ask, to seek and to stand with those we want to see change.

Psalm 9:7-10

Genesis 39:1-23

Matthew 7:1-12

   
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